I’ve bееn іn a relationship fοr a whіlе now іt’s bееn up аnd down nο different thеn аnу οthеr thаt i know οf, bυt whеn wе hаνе issues wе talk аbουt іt аnd try tο work thеm out . Lately though аnd i mean thе past 6 months things hаνе gotta out οf control ,ѕhе qυеѕtіοnѕ mе tο change things аnd i dο οr аt lеаѕt i try bυt whеn i qυеѕtіοn hеr ѕhе dοеѕ bυt thеn аftеr a day οr two іt goes back tο thе way іt wаѕ before. Shе doesn’t really touch mе οr mаkе аn attempt tο bе physcial wіth mе аt аll, whеn i try ѕhе јυѕt ѕауѕ ѕhе′s nοt іn thе mood, Bυt now thіѕ women аt work hаѕ bееn flirting wіth mе аnd hаѕ qυеѕtіοnеd tο gο out fοr drinks . Shе′s mаdе іt clear thаt ѕhе wаntѕ tο bе physcial wіth mе, i don’t know whаt tο dο i want tο stay wіth mу woman bυt i need hеr tο open up alittle lіkе ѕhе υѕе tο bе аnd thats nοt happening. . . . . . i need ѕοmе addvice guys.
Thank уου fοr answering guys аnd girls, i јυѕt sought аftеr tο add thаt іt’s lіkе i haven’t talk tοο hеr аbουt thіѕ аnd qυеѕtіοnеd whаt i сουld dο tο mаkе hеr more comfortable wіth mе tο gеt things going . аnd nο i wasn’t јυѕt here fοr thе sex wе′ve bееn together fοr 5 years аnd іt јυѕt seem lіkе i don’t hаνе аn аnѕwеr tο іt. I guess i јυѕt liked hοw ехсеllеnt іt wаѕ іn thе past аnd i’d really lіkе іt tο gο back tο thаt bυt іt seems lost. Bυt now thе qυеѕtіοn іѕ whаt dο i dο whеn ѕhе won’t talk tο mе аbουt іt, i offered tο listen аnd nοt ѕау a word a јυѕt sought аftеr tο know іf i hаd changed οr dіd something tοο bring thіѕ οn аnd ѕhе wouldn’t talk tο mе аbουt іt. It’s lіkе talking tο a wall ѕοmе times.
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First, sort it out with your girlfriend. Try to get her to sit down and talk to you, then tell her what you told us. Except for the part with the second girl. If your girlfriend is back to habitual with you, I’m worried you can’t become physical with the other girl…unless you choose to break up with your girlfriend.
Sit her down and have a long talk with her, letting her know everything that’s bothering you. If she doesn’t answer, end the relationship and go on.
She could be having issues. Or she’s just waiting for you to break it off. Go with your gut on this one. If its been really as long as sixth months it may be the best go to sever and find a new lady-friend. Seems like this one is causing you more distress than its worth.
You should tell your partner whats going on because if you don’t and get busted i will be more hard for you
6 mo.s then that doubtless meens 12 – she wants to change things about you ? sounds like the type thats never pleased – nothing physical going on – sorry to say but time to go on
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Ok, from what I know about women (personal experience), something has happened and you missed it. If she seems to have lost interest in you physically, there could be a number of reasons, but the top of my list is dissatisfaction. From what you’ve said, she wants a surpass you to go with the regular her. So there’s obviously a miss match somewhere. And with women, they will change everything but what is really incorrect because we won’t tell you in dread of hurting your manly ego.
Now, if you’re thinking of having another relationship with a new woman, because the one you’re with isn’t being physical with you, when you’re physical with her, you’re only focused on your needs. I reckon you’re not getting the mind/body connection that goes with being intimate and that’s what your woman wants. Since you’re talking about leaving, you’re not really committed. She sees you as just being around for the excellent times. And you only see excellent when you’re physically pleased.
What I reckon you should do is remove both women from the equation. It’s time for you to bone up(excuse the pun) on your skills as a lover. Hit the books. Have you read all the classics like The Joy of Sex , The Pleasure Bond and the lot?Fill your head with creative options before you place your body into use again.
Now get cooking.
First of all, you need to tell the woman at work to back off! Remind her that you are in a relationship and that you aren’t looking for anything else. You could make a joke out of it if you don’t want to hurt her feelings.
The main thing is you need to sit down with your woman and question what’s incorrect. Let her know that you’ve always been able to get through everything together, and that you want to continue doing that. Let her know that you care about her feelings but you can’t help if she doesn’t tell you what’s incorrect. It’s doable that the two of you need to get away for a couple of days to revive the spark.
Sounds cliche’ I know, but sometimes we get so busy with work and our day to day problems we start to take each other for granted. Chances are when she starts feeling surpass about herself, she will also feel surpass about you as a couple. Hopefully she will open up like she used to.
That being said, women need to know that they can’t change a man. If he changes to suit her they will both end up being miserable.
She fell in like with you the way you are and it’s unreasonable for her to choose that you would be surpass some other way. If you’ve done all you can to make it work and she still doesn’t like the way you are, end the relationship and find someone who will.
Don’t go for the woman at work! Those relationships usually end in disaster.
You signal like a caring man and I would reckon that you need someone who will appreciate you. Of course I only have your side of the tale, so I can’t place all the blame on her.
Excellent luck!
first- you should never try to change each other- if she goes back to doing the same things as before- maybe thats just her personality-and it wont everlastingly change ever! but before you make a date to go out with someone else- you should make it be known to her that you are having second thoughts about the two of you and tell her why! maybe shes feelin it too if shes turning down sex! then you will both be able to go on with a clean slate and no regrets and animosity towards each other! its always surpass that way! but if you want to continue on with this woman- you two certainly need to talk about this! to look at other women is natural(we all like nice things cars, houses, jewelery,ect.)-but to deliberate going to another level with someone- is grounds for a serious discussion between you 2! maybe some excellent ancient fashion conversing is just what you need! maybe you both need to be listened to and not just heard! a excellent relationship is hard to find-if you got one- dont throw it away-work on it- if it needs too much work that your not willing to give-let each other go so you can both find right happiness with someone that helps you bring out the best you, that you can be!!
write it down sort of like a list of things that need to be talked about , what ever you do don’t cheat that would only make things worse……………….. remember a relationship is alot of work……………………….. keep working on it …………… if the both of you tried and its still not working then ……………… you know what comes next………………….. just be right and honest
Excellent Luck
In the first house, why did you change when she questions to ?, you don’t have to change man, cause see what is happening, you change, then you question her to change she doesn’t do it, and then you resent that, you have to be a man with boundaries, man, question for what you want, don’t do things you don’t want to do, be in control of your life, you are distress from the nice guy sindrome, and you have to get rid of it, cause is causing you nothing more than pain, before you do anything, get the book: No more mr nice guy by Robert Glover, you need to change yourself first, be strong, energetic, decisive, active, be a man, get the book you need to go to the website and get it. Read it, it will change your life