Comments on: “Just be yourself” The worst advice ever???? Men & Women?

By: ChopSuey93

ChopSuey93 — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 21:34:44 +0000

Well that’s what I go by. I’d rather be despised for who I am than loved for who I’m not. If you are just trying to score some chics then yes it is. But I don’t do that. Being yourself has worked for me wonderfully. Except when I was a kid. No. Haha.

By: J10

J10 — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 20:47:36 +0000

I kinda agree with you there.

Being yourself works if you have a really excellent self. If your self isn’t so excellent the results aren’t gonna be excellent either.

The advice should be to people who want to improve; always find ways to improve yourself, but don’t place up a fake adjoin and be right to yourself. Keep on working at it an your situation will change to a surpass one.

Although too much critissism can affect a person with a denial and they would become worse off than they are.

By: coco puffy.

coco puffy. — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 19:55:45 +0000

Your incorrect. No i don’t want any critics or friends telling me what is incorrect with me, because in the initially place, there is NOTHING incorrect me. I’m not gonna change myself to fit beauty standards of othe pple. All that matters is that pple like themselves as they are, & then it won’t really matter what other pple say. Now, obesity is obviously a affect come forth, i don’t reckon anyone ever tells anyone that its ok to be obese, but if you are a size 6, be a size 6, being a size 0 doesn’t make you a “surpass” person. People can improve themselves by varying their mindsets in this area themselves lacking having 2 be told what they should be by critics or whoever. Thats the whole fuckin problem in this world, self hatred is probably what even causes most deaths in this world, and no one would no it. Pple need 2 start accepting themselves 4 who they r, not everyone can look or be like everyone. So YES, that is the best damn advice anyone can ever give!

By: simply summer

simply summer — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 19:36:42 +0000

regardless of what anyone says.. you should be loved unconditionally despite your weight/size/looks/race.. if you are over weight, I’m sure those people grasp that they have a problem. I find it hard to believe that someone obese thinks that is ok because it’s not. Being over weight doesn’t only affect you physically if affects a person mentally and socially. There are a million ways to lose weight some people just need the extra push in the right direction. Being around negative people isn’t going to help you lose weight.. I’m an honest person and I tell it like it is. America is OVERWEIGHT

By: KB

KB — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 18:50:31 +0000

Over weight people
do not need to lose weight
for other people. People who have
‘dull sex lives’ don’t need to change that
so everybody else will be pleased. And people
don’t need to change their appearance just because
one person thinks that they’re unattractive.
Don’t be so accurate minded, if everybody thought like you do,
we would all be either dead or lonely.

By: flameinpueblo

flameinpueblo — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 18:23:49 +0000

I reckon you are confusing what most people mean…..be yourself usually goes with……..someone wants me to change myself and I reckon I am ok…….I am over weight and ok with myself….yes I know it is unhealthy…but I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs and exercise(some)…..so I reckon that with all the terrible habits I don’t have I am ok with the one I do have…..so to be truly pleased I need to find someone who is also ok with me…..by the way I have found him…..and what is incorrect with average? Some men are strong enough to see past that and find beauty….

By: Red Rose

Red Rose — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 18:15:43 +0000

You’re absolutely right. Some people on YA sugar coat their answers and give gerneralized advise.

By: MnkyMs

MnkyMs — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 17:24:46 +0000

of course we know that it is unhealthy but people shouldn’t judge you for that. You shouldn’t care what people look like on the outside anyways

By: ♥.Storm Girl.♥

♥.Storm Girl.♥ — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 17:16:50 +0000

It is simply people being polite! Do you really wanna be told how hideous you are (not adage you are).. But say your in a relationship and the sex has turned terrible or not at all.. you dont cristise, you talk in this area it, as a couple! You should be loved for the person you are.. not for the way you look…

By: Christian

Christian — Tue, 27 Apr 2010 16:27:39 +0000

It is the best advice ever, but it is also the most misunderstood advice ever.

Anyone who has been in circles in life would know that it is still a golden cut of wisdom.