People, friends аnd family аrе always adage thіѕ. If someone іѕ overweight thеу ѕау, “уου look alright, уου ѕhουld bе lονеd lіkе уου аrе″. If someone hаѕ dυll sex life, ” hе/ѕhе ѕhουld lіkе уου аѕ уου аrе″. If ѕοmе average girl qυеѕtіοnѕ a qυеѕtіοn οn Y/A іn thіѕ area hοw ѕhе looks, “уου аrе pretty, don’t change fοr anyone”
Really? Really? Don’t уου want friends аnd critics telling уου whаt іѕ incorrect wіth уουr body аnd thουghtѕ? If nοt, hοw саn people improve?
I rесkοn іtѕ a hυgе disservice tο thеѕе people іf thеу hаνе nο criticism, thеу stay thе same аnd endure thinking someone іѕ mаdе fοr thеm. Fοr example Obesity іѕ “ok” now, аnd іtѕ “nοt уουr fault”. Don’t wе know hοw unhealthy іt іѕ?
Whаt dο уου rесkοn?
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Some people, like you for instance, reckon there’s a virtue in being honest. Most of the rest of us have learned that there’s a time and a place for honesty. Just telling someone they only have average looks, for instance, may possibly hurt a person for life.
If YOU want people to be honest with you, then tell them. But don’t assume everyone feels the same way.
It is the best advice ever, but it is also the most misunderstood advice ever.
Anyone who has been in circles in life would know that it is still a golden cut of wisdom.
It is simply people being polite! Do you really wanna be told how hideous you are (not adage you are).. But say your in a relationship and the sex has turned terrible or not at all.. you dont cristise, you talk in this area it, as a couple! You should be loved for the person you are.. not for the way you look…
of course we know that it is unhealthy but people shouldn’t judge you for that. You shouldn’t care what people look like on the outside anyways
You’re absolutely right. Some people on YA sugar coat their answers and give gerneralized advise.
I reckon you are confusing what most people mean…..be yourself usually goes with……..someone wants me to change myself and I reckon I am ok…….I am over weight and ok with myself….yes I know it is unhealthy…but I don’t drink, smoke or do drugs and exercise(some)…..so I reckon that with all the terrible habits I don’t have I am ok with the one I do have…..so to be truly pleased I need to find someone who is also ok with me…..by the way I have found him…..and what is incorrect with average? Some men are strong enough to see past that and find beauty….
Over weight people
do not need to lose weight
for other people. People who have
‘dull sex lives’ don’t need to change that
so everybody else will be pleased. And people
don’t need to change their appearance just because
one person thinks that they’re unattractive.
Don’t be so accurate minded, if everybody thought like you do,
we would all be either dead or lonely.
regardless of what anyone says.. you should be loved unconditionally despite your weight/size/looks/race.. if you are over weight, I’m sure those people grasp that they have a problem. I find it hard to believe that someone obese thinks that is ok because it’s not. Being over weight doesn’t only affect you physically if affects a person mentally and socially. There are a million ways to lose weight some people just need the extra push in the right direction. Being around negative people isn’t going to help you lose weight.. I’m an honest person and I tell it like it is. America is OVERWEIGHT
Your incorrect. No i don’t want any critics or friends telling me what is incorrect with me, because in the initially place, there is NOTHING incorrect me. I’m not gonna change myself to fit beauty standards of othe pple. All that matters is that pple like themselves as they are, & then it won’t really matter what other pple say. Now, obesity is obviously a affect come forth, i don’t reckon anyone ever tells anyone that its ok to be obese, but if you are a size 6, be a size 6, being a size 0 doesn’t make you a “surpass” person. People can improve themselves by varying their mindsets in this area themselves lacking having 2 be told what they should be by critics or whoever. Thats the whole fuckin problem in this world, self hatred is probably what even causes most deaths in this world, and no one would no it. Pple need 2 start accepting themselves 4 who they r, not everyone can look or be like everyone. So YES, that is the best damn advice anyone can ever give!
I kinda agree with you there.
Being yourself works if you have a really excellent self. If your self isn’t so excellent the results aren’t gonna be excellent either.
The advice should be to people who want to improve; always find ways to improve yourself, but don’t place up a fake adjoin and be right to yourself. Keep on working at it an your situation will change to a surpass one.
Although too much critissism can affect a person with a denial and they would become worse off than they are.
Well that’s what I go by. I’d rather be despised for who I am than loved for who I’m not. If you are just trying to score some chics then yes it is. But I don’t do that. Being yourself has worked for me wonderfully. Except when I was a kid. No. Haha.