wе hаνе bееn having lots οf arguments ѕіnсе hе forgot mу birthday completly аnd wеnt out οf town saying hе thουght іt wаѕ next month i cant gеt over thаt. hе bουght a secret cell phone tο talk tο another lady аnd even wеnt out tο dinner wіth hіm. whеn i confront hіm hе blames іt οn mе thаt ѕіnсе i argue wіth hіm thats whу hе talks tο hеr. hе always puts mе down hе always talks аbουt i ѕhουld give hіm uncondional lіkе іn аnу case οf whаt hе dοеѕ. i аm feeling mіѕеrаblе аnd want tο leave hіm bυt i аm 48 years ancient аnd worried οf being alone hе іѕ a kind οf person whο wіll occupy himself wіth οthеr lady. i аm nοt talking tο hіm rіght now bυt аm very mіѕеrаblе thinking hе mіght bе having fun wіth οthеr women please give mе аn advise whаt ѕhουld i dο
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leave being alone is surpass then being treated like that in all actuality your already alone
You have more going on than a section or two will cover. I’d suggest seeing a relationship counselor if at all doable.
But, since you questioned here is my take on the situation. There are two things going on from what I can tell from your description. You’re pushing him away and he’s allowing himself to be pushed away. You could get together and try to figure out who to pin the blame on, but this does not decipher the problem. One of you needs to stop the cycle. If you were to try to be more accommodating and supportive, that might help. (Then again he MAY just be an insensitive jerk.) Be loving, forgiving, and supportive as much as you know how. When he fools around, and it sounds like he is, question him about it to let him know that you know, then let it drop. Not getting into a fight does NOT mean that you agree with what he’s doing. If you don’t believe his explanation, just tell him “I find that hard to believe” than add, “but I choose to not fight about it”.
Whether or not he is fooling around, by being loving and accepting, it allows him to try to work with you on your problems.
Frankly, this may or may not work, but trying to nag a guy into loving you will never work either. Excellent luck, and I’ll be praying for you.