I јυѕt turned 20 аnd yes I аm a black woman аnd yes I lіkе white men I care nοt whаt people rесkοn. I јυѕt want tο know hοw tο attract thеm. Or іt іѕ nο different thеn pulls black men. I know men аrе men аnd mοѕt οf thеm аrе equal, bυt ѕοmе аrе a small different. And please, nο rude οr nasty observations, thanks іn advance!
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You might have to be more forward, You will probably have to question if they would date a black girl.
I reckon alot of black girls are pretty but the number one thing that I cant stand in this area some black girl when they start talking that ebonics crap talk like a real person please…
just be yourself
Im sry but u have no chance ! !
I’m a black woman
I’ve dated men of different races. The best way to attract what you like is to mix where they are, and just be yourself period. You don’t have to dress or act any particular way to attract other races, because most men are just men. But, everyone has their preference. So if he likes you, than he likes you. If he doesn’t than it may possibly be because you’re not his type and his type may not have whatever thing at all to do with race, and in some cases it might.
From my experience, non-black men do find black women attractive (with our natural hair and unnatural state of hair…although from my experience they seem to find our natural hair more attractive as it is exotic to them being different than what they’re used to). Just make sure you aren’t too shy in this area letting a guy you take an interest in know that you dig him, and let him know that you don’t mind dating outside your race. It has been my experience that some non-black guys are hesitant to approach a black woman because they aren’t sure if you as a black woman would be open to dating them ( statistically black women, as well as asian men are the least to date and marry outside of their race) …and some non-black guys worry that the stereotypes of black women being aggressive ( ie. terrible attitude, ghetto, gold digger etc.) may be right. They don’t always grasp that stereotypes are just stereotypes and can’t be generalized.
I also reckon that it is vital to find out upfront if they are comfortable dating outside their race. A person may be attracted to other races, but it doesn’t always mean they will be comfortable in this area dating someone outside their race openly. I’ve experienced the hassle of dating someone who was not comfortable with letting his family and friends know that he was dating me because I was black. I thought it was ridiculous and ignorant because I ‘m educated, speak well, carry myself well, and handle others with respect and kindness. He claimed he loved me, but it wasn’t enough rumor has it that for him to get over his come forth with race. We finished a long term relationship over it. So be protective of yourself when you step into the world of interracial dating.
It can end with a pleased ending though as I married someone who before they met me had never dated a black woman before in anticipation of they met me. I went to a inter-racially diverse night club for the diverse mix of music and diverse mix of people. I like diversity. He ( my husband) was frightened at initially to approach me because of his lack of experience in dating black women and he was weary of the stereotype of a scary black woman. lol His european supporter proved him incorrect by asking me to dance. Shortly that evening he (my husband) got the guts to come over and dance with me. LOL I didn’t reckon it was going to go any further than having a excellent time on the dance floor. But we exchanged numbers, went on a date the next evening, and from there it was history. We got married a year shortly. lol I wasn’t looking to meet anyone in particular when I went to the club with my supporter that night, or just anyone at all period. Was just looking for a excellent time, being myself, and things I didn’t plot or expected simply happened. So hang out in places where there is diversity, be yourself, be confident, and you’ll attractive the guys you’re interested in. And don’t hesitate to let a guy know you like him.
Prior to meeting my husband, I had an interest in another non-black guy whom didn’t bother to show his interest in me in anticipation of I expressed my interest in him. He really was interested in me prior to me letting him know that I was interested in him. But, he didn’t reckon before then that there was a chance for us to date because I was black and he wasn’t. I always find this concept weird, but it is reality in a lot of cases. He figured all I would be into was black guys. He didn’t grasp that I was just generally attracted to men of all races period in anticipation of I showed interest in him. So once again if you show interest, than sometimes the doors will open if the same interest is there. Anyway, I wish you fantastic luck and fun in your dating quest
just act habitual and don’t talk all loud and with ebonics. I in person find black women very attractive. I’ve been with one before. Oh, and Kelly Rowland is hott as hell.
i can relate….im 21 black woman and ive had my honest share of white men-lol. (and still going
)im a firm believer in inrracial dating. There is no “right” or “incorrect” way 2 attact a white man. One thing i can say is….like any man they are expecting a nice classy woman. if u act like u ghetto and talk loud and like 2 cause drama that will scare em off. its all in this area personaily. boys will be boys and if they like u they like u no matter the race. Over all u have to be open both racially and personality wise. u just cant wake up and say “gee i reckon i will date a white guy” like a supporter of mine is trying 2 do. if its something ur not used 2 u would wanna take it slow. u cant call each other derogitory names and hope that the relationship will last bc it wont. no matter the race the guy should like u for they way that u are. Being in an interracial relationship can be hard bc of the constant attention (like staring, and side observations–and there will be side observations) but if its just yall against the world then i say go for it.
like all relationships have their ups and downs and its not simple but if yall like each other and if u reckon its the best go 2 make then dont just stand there…do it!!!
i can relate….im 21 black woman and ive had my honest share of white men-lol. (and still going
)im a firm believer in inrracial dating. There is no right or incorrect way 2 attact a white man. One thing i can say is….like any man they are expecting a nice classy woman. if u act like u ghetto and talk loud and like 2 cause drama that will scare em off. its all in this area personaily. boys will be boys and if they like u they like u no matter the race. Over all u have to be open both racially and personality wise. u just cant wake up and say \\\\"gee i reckon i will date a white guy\\\\" like a supporter of mine is trying 2 do. T.T if its something ur not used 2 u would wanna take it slow. u cant call each other derogitory names and hope that the relationship will last bc it wont. no matter the race the guy should like u for they way that u are. Being in an interracial relationship can be hard bc of the constant attention (like staring, and side observations–and there will be side observations) but if its just yall against the world then i say go for it.
like all relationships have their ups and downs and its not simple but if yall like each other and if u reckon its the best go 2 make then dont just stand there…do it!!!
Just be yourself at your best. The right man regardless of race will prefer that.
I really echo most of what has been said here. Be yourself dress sexy (hey white men like booty shorts too!) and by all means be a small forward with your approach. Also some white guys like submissive sistas some like dominant ones so if you’re into any one of those things let em know!
Be yourself and talk to him. Erect a friendship and don’t be worried to question if he would consider dating a black woman. Most white men believe that black women are only interested in black men and would not date a white man. Yes there are still the bigots out there, but if you take time to become right friends then you greatly increase your chances.
I am a white man and I am married to a gorgeous black woman. Her personality and strength of reputation are what I found most appealing.
As a white man, I believe that black women are more honest and open with their feelings and that a man can be him self around a black woman. White women are often shallow and superficial.
I’m a black girl and I’ve dated people from a few ethnic backgrounds,in person I found black men more romantic and more protective which I like! My boyfriend for the last 2 years is White and I was just myself (he approached me) I’m not all “diverse” I find it more flattering when men do the chase! I was single for 18 months before I met him due to a series of relationships that didn’t work out,partly because I didn’t know what I wanted at the time. I met my boyfriend twice before we started dating, initially time was in my local Asda,he helped me get something from a shelf I couldn’t reach…only turned out he came to my gym as well
he didn’t beat in this area the bush,he questioned me out when I met him at the gym,I said yes and the rest is history.
It hasn’t always been simple,we’re in 2010 and some people still stare when we’re together and black men refer to me as a “sell out” the same black men who had their chances and blew it lol.
If a person really likes you for who you are colour won’t matter,just be yourself and the tight guy will come along. Don’t focus on colour just make sure he makes you pleased and treats you like a princess, it’s what every girl deserves
excellent luck xx
I’m a 24year ancient black female who lives in Michigan and I loveeee white men! But it seems like all the ones I like are taken or don’t seem like they would be interested in dating out side their race.
…so I can certainly relate to the question that was questioned….
I’m a 28-year-ancient black woman and I have a preference for white men. I have dated black men, and my last boyfriend was Bengali. Still, since I’m into punk rock and anime, I tend to have more in common with white men. We’ve flirted back and into the world, but I have never been questioned out on a date by a white man. But, I’ve never had the guts to approach one. The responses above were very helpful. I’m not ghetto, and I don’t act like a white girl, so I guess I’m just in-between. I’m going to follow everyone’s advise and just continue to be myself, and hope for the best.
As a white guy I can relate to expecting that black women don’t date white guys. I’ve been attracted to a number of black women over the years but never had the courage to approach. Call me a stereotype follower or a bit of a coward, but that’s my reality. Black women cannot carry a sign like “white guys may apply”, and white guys shouldn’t hang around waiting for black women to take the initiative. So, gents, approach that attractive black woman, and if she’s not interested, what have you lost?
Initially of all: How NICE that u,a black girl,likes us white men,that is such a relief to hear,thank u 4 that:)
The reason why its a relief,is because many white men,me built-in,have long had an impression that black women doesnt find white men attractive,but after conception this,and several houndreds and houndreds of similiar observations on the web by black girls,im starting to grasp that my impression is incorrect,which is GOOD:)
Second: Many white guys dont dare to hit on black girls,because they r worried that the nearest pack of black men r gonna attack them and beat the crap out of them,which makes a lot of white men keep some distance,but just look at their eyes,secretly admiring u,completely awestruck by your beuty:)
Yes,the MAN is supposed to make the initially go,but in cases like WM/BW,at least for some years ahead,in anticipation of i gets even more common,it MIGHT b best if the BW makes the initially go,but not forever,ofcourse,just for some time ahead.
We white men r still a bit “worried” of u black women,and I dont mean litterally,but to offend u in any way,by making a go on u,or even worse,that u turn into the “Fuming Black Woman”-thing,u know,which only ONE episode can b more than enough to make just that white guy experiencing it,to keep distance permanently,in dread of having to go through it again,unfortunately…Sad,but right…
I wish a black woman may possibly approach me someday…I REALLY wish that…:/
Hmmm,weird,but it seemed that a lot of words got changed in the last two columns when I posted this,so that it seems that I have Dyslexia,or something…
It was supposed to b: We white men r stil a bit “AFRAID” of u black women,not WORRIED,and ANGRY black female,not MAD,and ENOUGH,not AMPLE etc,etc…Well,guess its readable anyway and that I got my point out,at least:)
Initially thingi iwl like t say is that, there are no specific ways to attracting a white man, if you meet a white man u feel deeply for, initially be friends to erect a cordial friendship with him, the you can tell him how you feel. from experience i can say telling a whie man how u feel gives them a excellent suspicion that they arent pestering you or will be rejected if they pursue you, i had a white supporter i had suspicion for months but cuoldnt let it out, i have always guessed he does have feelings for me too, bt i wasnt sure, so i summoned all the guts i have in me to tell him how i feel and my utter most suprise he felt exactly how i felt only he was worried if he diclose it to me, i will reject him, bt after i told him how i felt i was really amazed at how diffrent things turned out, he cudnt get enough of my company, hes always around me gisting laughing and teasing me, though we havent discussed abt moving the relationship forward bt the feelings that comes with the fact that he so much into me, changes everything. but my advise will be, be smart, be confident of yourself, show some sense of intelligence, say ur mind a all time but with some sense of humor, never be ashamed to prompt ur feelings.. and i wish you goodluck in ur pursuit… Cheers.
I keep conception these observations and it’s obviously that there is something lost in translation. White guys say they like black girls but are frightened of rejection, black girls say they like white guys but are also frightened of rejection. If someone doesn’t try, we both get rejected. WE NEED TO GO OUT THERE AND GET THEM! I agree with David, what have you lost if you get rejected? What’s the worst thing that may possibly happen? They tell you no? So what? Thats one down and in this area a million more to go. One will eventually say yes!
I go to college at the University of North Texas where a lot of my peers say that they have not even interacted with African Americans before in their previous schooling (which is astonishing to me). I am 19 approaching 20 in the next month and very attracted to white males. But, I dread ever approaching them because 1) I don’t ever approach males in general. 2) I honestly don’t want to hear them say “I don’t date black girls.” Aside from hating rejection, I just don’t know why color matters. Why can’t it just be that you’re attracted to someone for who they are? But, I guess it’s just the world we live in. I really do wish that white males walked around with a sign that says “I’m open-minded” then I wouldn’t be so worried. I talk in this area this subject with my non-black friends all the time, and they always say “I don’t really know any white guys that would date a black girl, not to say that they wouldn’t, but I’ve just never seen them interact with a black woman.” That in itself discourages me and then to see who their friends are, etc. As for my own personal experience, there is a guy in my mass communications class that I reckon is sooooooo HOT! His name is Dane and he is an art major. He has shaggy hair and dresses really cool. (like myself, if I must say so myself , lol) He just seems so perfect, but every time I even reckon in this area approaching him, I just dread that he will say the very thing to tear down my ego. I guess I’ll just never know…
CHELSEYYYY>>>PLZZZ do something..u will regret more for rest of your life not having guts to approach Dane..ok start tiny by giving a compliment like..”Hey your hair looks really nice today, what shampoo did you use?” Say something this nonsense has to stop with both sides chickening out!
I’m 53 year ancient black female always been attracted to white men but never acted on it in anticipation of recently. Excellent advice to approach and let them know you like them. I’ve been wandering how to go in this area meeting a white guy. I’ve been on the interracialpeople meet and lot of them just want phone sex! I want to meet a nice guy for friendship then marriage. It’s excellent to know that white guys are as attracted to us as we are to them.
I am a 25 years ancient black woman, I’ve always wanted to date a white man but im intimidated because it feels like they are not attracted to me. I guess i have to change the way i reckon to date outside of my race.
I’m 17 years ancient, I’ll be 18 years ancient next month. I am also a mixed but still black young lady. I can really relate to what a lot of you have to say. I’d like to have the experience of dating a white guy. For example: I was at a orientation for my job. I saw a really excellent looking white man. He’s a young intern. well I was kind of worried to say something to him. I didn’t know if he would give me the time of day, or even want to carry out a conversation with me. I’m getting off topic but I can know the fears of rejection. I wish some how black woman may possibly read their minds just to see if we may possibly even have a change with these white fellows. lol
I would like, really like to date a white guy i reckon there so so attractive. don’t get me incorrect i do like black guys too, i mean there also attractive but i looove white guys it”s so sad that non of them ever ever seems to approach me :/. And im a very sweet and cool girl so i don’t get it anymore.
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ive always been attracted to white men but never had the nerve to pursue one. im 23 and i’d like to meet a white male between the ages of 30 and 45…sadly a 23 year ancient black woman and a white guy in that age group dont have much in common so where does that leave me?
Get slender and fit and learn how to carry and dress yourself well (elegantly). You won’t have a problem but you will if you’re stout or chubby.
you dont have to be tall and skinny to attract a white guy,be you.diffrent guys like diffrent things.the white guy that will be attracted to the real you,lacking you having to dress a certain way or speak a diffrent way,is the right guy that yul be pleased with.am an african lady living in a predominantly white country and a white guy that am currently dating told me how all his friends wer dying to talk to me at a party but only he had athe balls to do it….and he doesnt regret it.as a black woman,,,,make sure you look ‘welcoming’ when you notice a white guy noticing you:)its realy in this area your body foreign language in a scenario such as in a club or at a party or an event:)
i just want to know how can i approach a white guy. youger white guys in high school seem to not go for black girls. it sucks because i am not anywhere near attracted to black guys or anyother race. i truly like white guys and really want to date one. i go to a prodomenitally(sp) white school. so many to choose but they all try for other girls not blacks. i try to show them i am nowhere near ghetto or loud. i dont even listen to black music because i like nsync and backstreet but im taken as a joke but its right i just want to date white guys.
Im a 23 year ancient white male who likes all ethnicities of women but, I am most attracted to black women. I have dated 2 black women. Thick black women are my favorite, butt, hips, thighs, and legs….i like it. White guys want to date a black woman but dont admit it or dont know how to go in this area it, they should just question…really not that scary. If they dont, flirt with them to let them know your interested, you may have to be forward. I above all look for character in a woman like: caring, honesty, loyalty, willingness to date white, to some extent classy, motivation, and being themselves. As for Tinas comment above, this is not necessary. I dont like skinny women and you dont have to be elegant. A real man will like you the way you are. Excellent luck and just approach when you feel attracted to someone.
This is simpler than you reckon. Dress and act professionally. Stay away from the cheap look. Frequent high end restaurants, BIA after work gatherings, Community Social clubs/associations ie Rotary,Lions, Kiwanis, etc.
Stay away from sports and single bars
To tell you the certainty as a black female, it’s really hard manly because of rejection. Black women are stereotype so much that we dread what a white, Hispanic , Indian or Asian male might reckon to date outside their race. In conclusion be yourself don’t follow the norm (if your not an fuming person don’t act all guetto and mad). Black girls who don’t follow the norm ( listen to ALL genre of music, dress different, smile alot,comfortable with everyone) usually are able to date non-colored men.
Excellent luck.
Well I’am a African American women living in south Florida and I want to date a white male because I want to explore someone else’s culture and tradition. I have not been able to meet on I’ve tried dating sites such as pof and nothing. Anyone who lives in south Florida know where I can frequent ..not really into clubs so where should I go.
There is a dating expert I’ve heard say that men are naturally suppose to approach women initially* if he is attracted to them (it is a Natural Instinct of men to approach women (initially.) They are suppose to “hunt” the women, Not* the other way around. If a woman wants to know if a man is attracted to her, she says a woman smiles at them for literally 5 seconds (obviously while he sees her smiling at him) and if he is interested, he will approach her and Speak to her. If he is not interested, he will look away promptly or ignore her. I’m also attracted to white men. I’m physically attracted to them More than other “groups”. I’m 1/4 Filipino and the rest is German but* many people have told me randomly that I “look Hispanic.” I’ve attracted many Black men over the years, and some Hispanic people but it is very rare for men who are/look White to approach me or who are attracted to my look. The only white guys I’ve attracted are unappealing (i.e. curly red heads with freckles just don’t do it for me.) I grew up in the 80s and had a thing for Kirk Cameron from Growing Pains or the youngest guy from New Kids on The Block (admittedly they do look similar, blue eyes, curly brown hair… : ) I also reckon Zac Effron is cute but obviously I’m 10 years older but still… he’s hot to me. I have been attracted to guys who were “hideous” to the general public but (To Me) thought they were cute. We all have our preferences. I am also open to unattractive guys (who I would Not want to sleep with) as long as they are at least intelligent and/or educated but that can be hard too… it depends.