Comments for HeartsForU

Comment on Post Your Questions And Answers About Getting Laid In Vegas by sheila

sheila — Thu, 19 Jan 2012 16:23:54 +0000

Hey, my initially and last relationship was 2yrs ago at 19yrs ancient and since then u place of safeguard’t been able to find any other guy. What can I do to up my chances I’m finding some one. I’ve tried dating sites and no luck

Comment on how would a black woman attract white men? by sheila

sheila — Tue, 17 Jan 2012 03:20:01 +0000

Well I’am a African American women living in south Florida and I want to date a white male because I want to explore someone else’s culture and tradition. I have not been able to meet on I’ve tried dating sites such as pof and nothing. Anyone who lives in south Florida know where I can frequent ..not really into clubs so where should I go.

Comment on I am a 33 year old male, I’ve never had a girlfriend, all my friends are married, and I am beyond lonely.? by Nick Drake

Nick Drake — Sun, 15 Jan 2012 22:12:25 +0000

I fully know what the poster has gone through. Its simple to look into the problem from an outsiders perspective, but when you beat yourself up over it every day, like a mantra, you really start believing your own despise. It clearly stems from childhood – I was subject to some horrific harassment as a child simply due to my colour of skin, once i left school I embraced drugs and alcohol as a way out. I do neither now i’m in my late 30′s and wasted much of my life on low paid jobs just to pay my rent. I still feel the same worthless person i was in the playground. But I know the way forward is professional help, so I can only suggest you speak to a doctor in this area your anxiety and dread. I have started seeing a therapist in this area 6 months ago, which is not cheap but I am getting over the initial hurdle. I need to be at ease with myself before I burden my problems with someone else, because I don’t reckon a partner is neccessarily the cure. I know that I am the one with the problem and I can’t blame anyone else. I hope this helps.

Comment on Is a Sagittarius woman & pisces man really a bad combonation as the experst make it out 2 be? by Chelsea

Chelsea — Fri, 13 Jan 2012 07:08:59 +0000

I am a sag female. I was in a four year relationship with a Sag male. Two and a half years into the relationship I met a PISCES male. We just happened to be in the same place at the right time. I kept in contact with him via facebook and phone over the next two years. As soon as my relationship with the Sag male finished I ran into the Pisces Male in town lacking even contacting him. We fell for eachother within two weeks. Never during the past four years of my life before that did I ever feel the emotions of closeness that I felt with this Pisces. In less than 6 months we were engaged. And then POOF, he drops me on my face! Just before all the holidays. I was so depressed, let down, heart broken, confused. I tried to talk him back. Initially just questioning why, not being aggressive or overly fuming with him. I let him go. I didnt see him for months. Then he just randomly pops back into my life. The like we had for eachother was so intense that I just accepted it and loved it while it lasted, being so scarred from the past that I didnt want to question things in anyway because I already felt it werent going to last. So, of course he dissapears again. Now a year shortly after he does this multiple times to me and I just accept it, drop whoever Im with for him, delight in it while it lasts, feel heart broken when he dissapears, go on promptly. Well, finnaly I cant handle it anymore and I leave my hometown in the South and go a thousand miles NorthWest. And what happens? He starts calling and contacting me. Now he wants to be serious. Now he wants to be married and live together and talk in this area children and carreers, money and a home together. So I come back home for a month, stay with him. Were so so so in like its crazy. I am not one who attaches easily for dread of let down and heart break and being lied to.. But I let him have all of me during that month. Now Im back home in the NorthWest because my name is on a lease, Im in college up here, etc. And he wants me to go back. What do I do???? WHAT CAN I DO? I always heard if youre a right human being, youll gamble everything for like….

Comment on how would a black woman attract white men? by Lynia

Lynia — Fri, 06 Jan 2012 16:08:20 +0000

To tell you the certainty as a black female, it’s really hard manly because of rejection. Black women are stereotype so much that we dread what a white, Hispanic , Indian or Asian male might reckon to date outside their race. In conclusion be yourself don’t follow the norm (if your not an fuming person don’t act all guetto and mad). Black girls who don’t follow the norm ( listen to ALL genre of music, dress different, smile alot,comfortable with everyone) usually are able to date non-colored men.

Excellent luck.

Comment on how would a black woman attract white men? by Simeon

Simeon — Fri, 06 Jan 2012 12:22:13 +0000

This is simpler than you reckon. Dress and act professionally. Stay away from the cheap look. Frequent high end restaurants, BIA after work gatherings, Community Social clubs/associations ie Rotary,Lions, Kiwanis, etc.
Stay away from sports and single bars

Comment on How do I get my Virgo man to forgive me? by retard

retard — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 03:29:15 +0000

You are seriously missing a few screws, besides being unable to spell in English.

You have done NOTHING incorrect, your Virgo is simply turning the table making YOU the terrible guy and not him. It’s back psychology and Virgo’s are fill in for responsibility this sort of thing to their partners all of the time. Not adage that you are his partner, you are his girl on the side. Obviously those candles were for someone pretty special, otherwise why would he have lost it on you for giving them away. I don’t reckon you grasp this but you are the OTHER girl, the girls he previously mentioned are probably his girlfriend and an ex girlfriend. As we all know Virgo’s are practically unable to break up with anyone lol.

So yeah….you pretty much already accepted that you are one of three women and he was honest enough to tell you the TRUTH and the reality so you can either accept it and live with it, if that’s how you want to live your life OR you can walk away if you choose to live by higher personal moral standards but question yourself if some dick who buys your things is really worth your soul and dignity?

As an Aries female myself….something in this area you makes me want to slap you lol. Seriously get a clue….learn self control, learn how to read people and situations and for gods sake don’t become another female Aries who is a doormat to a Virgo male. Typical bullshit.

Comment on How should a Sagittarius guy attract Leo and Aries girls? by Person who Researches Astrology for fun

Person who Researches Astrology for fun — Sun, 01 Jan 2012 23:15:12 +0000

Astrological Signs have some importance on who you are well matched with. Whether you believe it or not. 1/3 of you based upon your specific birth date, is your personality. Yes, they are accurate if you know how to look for your astrological background. 2/3 of you is upbringing.

Comment on If I’m a scorpio woman and he’s a taurus man…? by Jess

Jess — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 08:22:11 +0000

I am a scorpio woman and like a taurus man. When I initially met him I was with a sagittarius and was really in like. But when I seen the taurus, he was the one and only man that I thought, “wow, what if…”. Since we met, I found out my ex the sag was a total cheater/liar/scumbag. Now I’m talking to the taurus but I can’t get a excellent read on him. We place of safeguard’t hung out yet. What should I do when we go out? How should I act?

Comment on How can a black woman, attract a puerto rican man? by lil loca fo life

lil loca fo life — Wed, 28 Dec 2011 04:05:29 +0000

Ey im Puerto rican black native and white and puerto rican guys like to be active dancing and smart fine girls btw ima 15 yr ancient girl who got dis info from my huge bro