HeartsForU

Planning a wedding can be difficult enough without worrying about competition for the best man’s position. Sometimes, however, you are confronted with a situation in which you have more than one candidate and more than one person expecting to be chosen. Now you are not only worried about caterers and flowers or whether to choose regular wedding favors or unique wedding favors, wedding hall, ark, and a hundred other decisions that have to be made and there is no easy solution.

Scenario: You are in love and you are ready to make the big move. You have popped the question and she says yes. You were the best man at your only brother’s wedding and your best friends wedding and you know that they are both expecting you to ask. What do you do in this delicate and potentially sad situation?

Your best friend is a good person who has had your back in more than one dangerous situation. He has pulled your fanny from the fire a few times and he is like a brother to you. You can count on him in a pinch and he can do the same with you. When you manned the post at his wedding he let you know that he is there for you when you get married. Hey, you have to ask him, right?

You and your brother grew up in some hard times and you kept each other safe. He made sacrifices that helped you out and you would literally die for the man if it came down to it. You know for a fact that he chose you as a best man over his long time best friend and expects you to reciprocate. It has got to be him, right?

This dilemma pops up at almost every other wedding and there is no easy way to figure it out. You will have your mom and probably you fianc telling you that you have to go with family and in a way, they are right. Blood is not only thicker than water; it is louder too. You may never hear the end of a poor decision here so either man up and make the choice or let mommy do it for you. There are not many options here. Of course, if you do not mind having your mother pull this out of a hat every time she sees you, take the twins out of her purse, and choose your best friend like you had a pair. Your brother lives a thousand miles away and your best friend lives down the street. A third option and probably the safest is to let them decide.

Solution: Invite your friend and your brother over for a drink. Just the three of you sit down, pop open some suds, and explain the situation to them. Let them know that you do not want to hurt either one of them and you need help deciding. Now one of three things is about to happen. Either they will laugh at you for foolish worry and pull high card for it, get totally ticked off and tell you to pull your manhood out of your mommy’s purse and pick someone, or they will both refuse and you’ll have to find someone else. More than likely, they will see the very tough time you are having and after a little ribbing, one of them will take the job and you will be in the clear. Just remember one thing. If at the end of the day you still cannot decide, blood is thicker than water.

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